For a student, what’s the difference between doing alright and flourishing?

Doing alright and flourishing are not the same thing! In fact, they are quite different. Just check out synonyms for doing alright and flourishing, and you’ll see what I mean:

  • Doing alright: doing OK, satisfactorily, adequately, good enough, so-so
  • Flourishing: growing, thriving, developing, prospering, bearing fruit

What comes to mind when you think of flourishing? What comes to mind for me is consistently experiencing the 5 elements of flourishing: passionate purpose, resilient well-being, healthy relationships, transformative leaning and helpful resources. 

This means that flourishing involves consistently experiencing each and every one of the 5 of the elements of flourishing—not inconsistently experiencing 1 or more of the elements or experiencing a lesser version of an element (like transformationless learning instead of transformative learning). 

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Let me explain further by providing a description of what it looks like for a student to experience each of the 5 elements at the “doing alright” level and at the “flourishing” level:

(A) Passionate purpose:

  • Doing alright students experience infrequent personal goal setting, a lack of perceived freedom to ask tough faith-related questions, and Christian teachers.
  • Flourishing students consistently experience personal goal setting, making a positive impact for Jesus, the freedom to ask and discuss difficult faith-related questions (see Construct: Questioning, p. 14), and a living curriculum (staff) that models Christ-centered passionate purpose. 

(B) Resilient well-being:

  • Doing alright students experience irregular exercise, some durability during a crisis, and a basically safe environment.
  • Flourishing students consistently experience physical exercise and a good diet (see Construct: Healthy Living, p. 18), sufficient personal durability in times of crisis (see Construct: Resilience, p. 18); and a safe, nurturing, Christ-centered environment. 

(C) Healthy relationships:

  • Doing alright students experience reasonably safe, respectful peer relationships; and respectful Christian teachers.
  • Flourishing students consistently experience safe, caring, collaborative, respectful peer relationships; caring, collaborative, respectful Christ-centered staff (see Construct: Christlike Teachers p. 15); and a living curriculum (staff) that has healthy relationships with other staff. 

(D) Transformative learning:

  • Doing alright students experience class content and skills, some good teaching practices, and teachers who have mastered class content and skills.
  • Flourishing students consistently experience big questions, big ideas, and big skills; best practice content, assessment, instruction, and feedback that are designed to help them achieve the Christ-centered outcomes; and a living curriculum (staff) that models transformative learning.

(E) Helpful resources:

Bottom line: Don’t let your students just do alright. Instead, help them flourish!

Here are some related resources:

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What about you? What’s the difference between doing alright and flourishing? For a student, what does it look like to be doing alright for each of the 5 elements of flourishing? For a student, what does it look like to be flourishing in each of the 5 elements of flourishing? What’s 1 action step you can take to help 1 student move toward flourishing?

Get flourishing!

Michael